A year ago, I thought my world had come to an end. It was only the beginning.
I have someone who truly loves me now. Someone that makes me feel safe, doesn’t push my boundaries, and tells me often how he loves me and misses me when I’m not there.
Sounds like the basics of a good relationship, but I spent a lot of time with someone who didn’t quite have those things. I loved him, but his love was not like mine and deep down I think I always knew it. He was in my life for 2.5 years, and I thought he would always be there.
When he told me he “Just can’t do this anymore” I felt beyond devastated. I cried for months. I had nightmares. He meant the world to me, and it hurt to have him gone.
But now, a year later, after I have gotten over the hurt and look back at that relationship, I know I am far better off now.
I’m glad God took that situation out of my hands and led me to someone who puts a smile on my face instead of tears in my eyes.
4 comments:
I hear ya...I've only been dating my guy for 2 months, but I'm amazed at how much of a difference there is between him and the last guy I dated. He's so good at making me smile and laugh and we haven't fought about anything yet. I remember how sad you were when the last relationship ended, and I'm glad that things are working out for you here!
Thank you Becky! I'm glad your guy is working out well too. He sounds really sweet and thoughtful from what you have posted.
glad to hear you are fairing better in the relationship department.
just wanted to tell you i like the new look on your blog. i like the color scheme of black and white with the green accents. take it easy!
Thanks Matt! The Black was getting tired.
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